You do you, but i think "Reveal" parties of anykind are a bad idea. Even cis people hate cis reveal parties, now as trans people doing reveal parties reinforces the "snowflake" narrative with the transphobes. Still if you feel you need to... more power to you. Grab your accepting friends and have a have a good time, but we cant start pushing this into the media sphere when our unified message should still be: "Hey...please dont kill us or take away our access to healthcare or a place to pee"