So, first off thank you for opening this up for discussion. I am in that weird unhappy spot in my process between losing pleasure in penile stimulation and having my neurons re-wired to the female pleasure center. I probably have another 6 months. Right now. I will produce precum that now comes out like vaginal fluid does to stimulate before orgasm. When I discharge now I know it is not orgasm but my body now thinks there should be a vagina there so it acts accordingly. Actual orgasm keeps building and while I cant reach it still the process of ramping up is still exciting and I find it energizes me strangely for the rest of the day. Maybe because I am still waiting to discharge all that pinned up orgasmic energy. One day I will find out.

Having sex with cis partners can be frustrating because they really have no idea how we “get off" and most aren’t willing to take the time to figure it out. Not all transgendered people reach climax the same way, and thus sex requires real communication. The funny thing is that cis women are this way too and yet most often go unsatisfied why? Because no one communicates. Imagine if the habits developed to have sex with trans and non binary people bleed over into cisgendered sexual intercourse. people actually communicated?Damn, now I gotta go write a thing.