My god this is so true! When I started to transition I played around with the notion of seriously dating Cis men, but I quickly learned that the ones who were willing to date me were typically incapable of respect or understanding when it comes to trans women.(I am going to be clear in saying I don't believe all cis men are like this.)I am in a loving and committed relationship with another Trans Woman and we are happy. Nevertheless, both of us do enjoy the idea of a male sexual partner, and have decided that we are free to pursuit that. So in our case the men get what they want, we get what we want, and it works OK. At the end of the day we come home to a partner who genuinely loves us. Because, after all, to us that what really matters, to know we arent alone in this world.